Alumni Development & Weaving Program

“The whole purpose of learning and evolving is to be shoulder to shoulder and belly button to belly button with others moving together, building a new kind of muscle. We are exploring and investigating a different kind of muscle, a non-binary one, that takes audacity, humility, and willingness to feel the uncertainty of what we have to offer. The key is to not try to do it alone.” - Norma Wong

We are excited to launch our first ever BTM alumni program in Spring 2026! 

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These questions will guide our time:

What becomes inevitable for you and us as we heal our wounds and become more whole?

How do we cultivate love and interdependence between white men?

Given what we are experiencing, what’s our next visionary LEAP together?

The experience will include:

  • 2 online pre-sessions 

  • 3-night/4-day retreat

  • 1 online post-retreat session

Details

May 11 - 14, 2026

  • Minneapolis area

  • Start at 4pm May 11, end at 12pm May 14

  • Online sessions :

  •  4/14 10am-12pm PT/1-3 ET

  • 4/28 10am-12pm PT/1-3 ET

  • 6/4 10am-12pm PT/1-3 ET

  • Please place holds on your calendar!

Tuition

Locate your suggested tuition by determining whichever puts you higher on the scale: your organization’s budget or assets (if you’re using professional funds), or your household income or total assets. 

We use this model to sustain our mixed class community and appreciate your honesty navigating it.

If the model doesn’t work for you, just pay what you can! We need you all.

  • $8,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $30 million+ or household wealth of $5 million +

  • $6,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $20-30 million+ or household wealth of $2 million +

  • $4,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $10-20 million or household income of $250 - $375k/year

  • $2,500

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $2-10 million or household income of $125 - $250k/year

  • $1,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of <$2 million or household income of <$125k/year

To secure your spot in the retreat, follow these steps:

1) Fill out the form out below

2) Pay your $100 deposit

Deposits are due by February 8, 2026

After submitting this form, you will be redirected to our payment page where you can pay your deposit.