Alumni Retreat

“The whole purpose of learning and evolving is to be shoulder to shoulder and belly button to belly button with others moving together, building a new kind of muscle. We are exploring and investigating a different kind of muscle, a non-binary one, that takes audacity, humility, and willingness to feel the uncertainty of what we have to offer. The key is to not try to do it alone.” - Norma Wong

We heard you and are excited to launch our first ever BTM alumni retreat in Spring 2026! 

And we plan to offer an alumni experience every other year to deepen our practice, grow our shared vision and nourish our relationships - the foundation of our community.

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These questions will guide our time:

What becomes inevitable for you and us as we heal our wounds and become more whole?

How do we cultivate love and interdependence between white men?

Given what we are experiencing, what’s our next visionary LEAP together?

The experience will include:

  • 2 online pre-sessions 

  • 3-night/4-day retreat

  • 1 online post-retreat session

Tuition

Locate your suggested tuition by determining whichever puts you higher on the scale: your organization’s budget or assets, or your household income or total assets. Our sliding scale enables wealthy men and larger organizations to help cover program costs for men from working class backgrounds and smaller organizations. 

  • $10,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $30 million+ or household wealth of $5 million +

  • $8,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $20-30 million+ or household wealth of $2 million +

  • $5,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $10-20 million or household income of $250 - $375k/year

  • $3,000

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of $2-10 million or household income of $125 - $250k/year

  • $1,500

    For those sponsored by an organization with a budget/assets of <$2 million or household income of <$125k/year

Dates and location TBD:

  • Retreat will be held in this date range: Sun April 26 - Wed May 13

  • We are hoping to secure a location in the midwest

  • Online sessions will be the month prior and month following 

  • Consider placing a hold on your calendar

If you’re interested, fill this form out